Things I learned this year from people I love

Hello Everyone. 

2022 was a year full of life lessons. It taught us that people will leave, everything will change, and we just need to accept and embrace the change. Because change is beautiful. It gives you new hopes in life, and if you embrace the change, you will turn into a totally new and best version of yourself. But the biggest lesson I learnt this year is, "Stop glorifying your pain. Because if you glorify your pain, you will become a victim. And victims are not victors." Yes, we are not victims, we are victors, warriors.

This time instead of letting sadness and pain take control over me, I am choosing to be happy and letting hopes and new opportunities enter my life. I'm letting all the pain and sadness go away. I will be a victor this time. 

And for letting this change happen, I would like to appreciate the people who helped me reach this point where I am ready to change my life. This post is all about what I've learnt from them. And so here they are:

1. Aditi: Aditi taught me how to accept a person fully with their goodness as well as their flaws.
2. Dev: Dev taught me how to be chill in life and when to say "No". I never used to say no, but I learned from him that saying "No" at the right time is really important.
3. Aaket: Aaket taught me, how to value friendships. Yes, I used to value friendships, but he taught me how to maintain them and appreciate that beautiful bond.
4. Manav: Manav taught me how to believe in God and learn from what they have done.
5. Urmit: Urmit taught me how to give and take respect. I respect everyone, but I learned it more accurately after meeting him. 
6. Meet bhaiya: Meet bhaiya taught me how to talk nicely and motivate others, even if they fucked up. He taught me how to support and appreciate the goodness in everyone.
7. Shaishav: Shaishav taught me how to help others, how to guide them when they are in a problem or just feeling lost, and how to listen to what others are saying. It's really important. As I said, he is like medicine to my soul. And he also taught me different personal styles of writing poetry.
8. Malav: Malav taught me how to grow as a person and how to focus more on myself rather than taking tension and focusing on others' opinions.
9. Devanshi: Devanshi taught me how to maintain a friendship for years. 

So yes, these are the people who taught me major life lessons till now. I appreciate their presence in my life. You taught me lessons which I had only heard of and never implemented. This time, I'm implementing them as well. 

Thank you.